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Relationships: Do Some People Shut Down Emotionally After A Breakup?

Wed, 26 Dec 2018 13:26:45 -0600

There are a number of things that can cause someone to experience incredible pain, and a breakup is one of those things. When someone experiences a break up, it can feel as though their whole has come to end.

Relationships: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are Being Controlled?

Mon, 19 Nov 2018 11:56:20 -0600

Naturally, someone's life is going to be far more fulfilling if the people in their life are able to respect their boundaries. Having friends, family members and even a partner who can do this is going to make it easier for them to express themselves.

You Sound Stupid When You Say That

Sun, 24 Jun 2018 11:01:10 -0500

Earlier on I was listening to a conversation where one person was having a go at someone else. These were not just two strangers, though; they were two people who knew each other.

The Relational Beauty of Empathy

Mon, 20 Aug 2018 08:37:28 -0500

It has long been a mystery to me just why on earth some people have an excess of empathy and some people have a dearth of it. At one end of the spectrum we have people so empathic they end up in relationships with those at the other end of the spectrum - those at the narcissistic end. I don't think it's useful in the present discussion to focus on the latter, because the former are so much more worthy of discussion and praise.

Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Leave An Abusive Relationship If They Feel Worthless?

Wed, 14 Nov 2018 11:41:01 -0600

If someone was to end up in a relationship that is abusive, there are at least two things that they can do. They can end up cutting their ties and moving on, or they can put up with what is taking place.

Don't Make Another Person The Centre Of Your World

Mon, 24 Sep 2018 14:18:31 -0500

When I was reading the book, 'Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway', there was a chapter that went into how important it was to have many different areas of interest in life, and not to put all our eggs in one basket, so to speak. The author, Susan Jeffers, pointed out that a lot of people make their partner the centre of their life.

Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Only Have Casual Sex?

Mon, 26 Nov 2018 12:25:12 -0600

For some men, casual sex is something that they will engage in from time to time, while there are others who only have casual sex. When it comes to the former, this could be something that takes place after a man has just been in a relationship.

Social Media: Has Social Media Caused Some People To Trade Intimacy For Attention?

Wed, 26 Sep 2018 12:53:31 -0500

When someone shares something online, they can end up receiving a fair amount of attention, and this can allow them to feel good about themselves. Even so, what happens online might only be a small part of their life.

Intimacy: Can Someone Be Unaware Of Their Own Fear Of Intimacy?

Thu, 18 Oct 2018 15:03:41 -0500

If someone has the desire to be in an intimate relationship, they may find that it is only a matter of time before they meet the right person. Alternatively, they may find that they are only able to get so far.

My Little Dear, It's Not Warm Outside!

Tue, 18 Dec 2018 11:57:19 -0600

Once again, it is the Christmas season, which means I have to put up with people offended by everything, particularly that pertains to Christmas. When I was young, we had a little saying, "Sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never hurt you." And as far as I understand, we stood by that saying. Most people today have never heard that saying and maybe somebody ought to educate them on some of the realities of life. If words are hurting you, something is wrong with "you." Everybody is offended by something. I am offended by people who are offended by things I say, which makes no sense whatsoever to me. Where people got this offend-itis disease is beyond me. I wonder if there is any cure for this kind of disease?

Dating: Should Someone Be Suspicious If Another Person Acts Extremely Interested In The Beginning?

Thu, 20 Sep 2018 12:09:04 -0500

If someone was to come across a dog, and this dog was to jump up down, making it clear that he/she was pleased to see them, there would be no reason for them to wonder what was going on. This is due to the fact that this just what dogs are like; they don't need a reason to be warm and responsive.

Do Some People Need To Experience A Few Bad Relationships Before They Can Appreciate A Good One?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 09:47:36 -0500

There are some people who will feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who is not abusive, while there will be others who won't. Therefore, if someone who can relate to the former was to end up with someone who is abusive, they would probably soon walk away.

Kindness Is Differential Blindness

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 09:33:54 -0500

If life has taught me anything it is that I am selfish. I'm being honest. I don't see very well at times. But times when I do see well, I'm prone to going my own way. I like to agree with those who think like me, and I tend to judge people who think differently. I am not very kind at times. Indeed, I think it is more the case that kindness is something I've had to work on. It isn't something that comes naturally. I think this is the case for most of us.

Labels Prevent Us From Seeing Human Beings

Wed, 27 Jun 2018 08:22:57 -0500

Labels prevent us from seeing the human being behind them. Once a person is labelled, we immediately see that person through the label. The label might affect our complete vision of that human being or only part of it but only by looking behind the label will we be able to truly see the person as he or she truly is.

Don't Apologise for Needing to Feel Safe

Mon, 26 Nov 2018 10:51:56 -0600

Just don't do it. There is a reason you need to feel safe. A very good reason. An honourable and right and perfectly sensible reason. So, please don't apologise.

Want Control? Then Take Your Responsibility

Mon, 23 Jul 2018 11:49:57 -0500

What I write about below is personal psychology 101. Most people in life want control over their life. Indeed, that's a huge understatement. We all want more control over life and our lives than we can seize. But this want of control, when needing control becomes an idol, creates situations where, most often, we surrender control. Here's how that works.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Focus On Other People's Problems?

Sun, 29 Jul 2018 16:19:40 -0500

Even though one will have their own life to lead while they are on this planet, it doesn't mean that they will actually have their own life. Instead, they could end up spending most of their tine focusing on other people's problems.

You CAN Learn To Make Yourself Feel Safe

Mon, 16 Jul 2018 21:22:31 -0500

Growing up, many of us didn't feel at all safe in our households. Many of us had parents or other caregivers who were physically, emotionally, and/or sexually abusive or neglectful. We had to find ways to manage this lack of safety, so we learned to numb out, eat or use other substances, be good, be bad or try to be perfect, or project the fear on something other than our parents, because acknowledging that it was our parents causing our fear caused more fear.

Couples Who 'Chore' Together, Generally Stay Together

Tue, 12 Jun 2018 09:46:29 -0500

Do you and your partner do chores together? If not, this article might be very helpful to you.

How to Get Someone Sober

Thu, 25 Oct 2018 11:07:33 -0500

If someone you care about drinks too much or abuses drugs, you know how hard you've tried to get him sober. You probably already know that what you've done hasn't worked. Try these suggestions to increase the odds that the person you care about will get sober.

The Thing About Trust

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 09:11:32 -0500

Trust is a dangerous thing. You give it when you determine it is deserved. We lavish it on those we esteem, those we have given leadership of our lives to.

Free Soul Mate Reading Review

Thu, 07 Jun 2018 08:50:43 -0500

The free soul mate reading is a foolproof magical program that helps unravel your true romance life in a matter of hours. It relies on the power of 3 tarot love cards to identify the little-known secrets of your past, current, and future romance life. It's all you need if your heart has been reduced to a dustbin due to frequent heartbreaks and disappointments. It reveals all you need to know about your future and empowers you to easily identify your 'Mr. Right'. It gives detailed instructions for finding and keeping a soul mate. With this program, your heart will never be used as a playground by fake boyfriends who are only after using you for sexual benefits. It will enlighten you enabling you to understand how to read your soul mate's heart and dedicate true love to keep them forever.

Relationships: Can Someone's Split-Off Parts Cause Them To Have Affairs?

Mon, 10 Dec 2018 09:43:52 -0600

There are a number of things that can cause a relationship to come to an end, and some of these things receive more exposure in the public eye than others. For example, it is not uncommon to hear about someone who had an abusive partner and how this caused their relationship to come to an end.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Act As Though They Are An Extension Of Others?

Fri, 09 Nov 2018 08:52:39 -0600

A lot of attention has been given to the type of person who sees others as an extension of themselves. In this case, someone won't believe that other people have their own thoughts, feelings, and interests, and are, therefore, individuals.

Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone Let Anyone Into Their Life?

Thu, 06 Dec 2018 20:40:28 -0600

In the same way that it wouldn't be a good idea for someone to put anything into their mouth; it also wouldn't be a good idea for them to open themselves up to anyone. Therefore, the level of discernment that they show when it comes to the former will need to be shown when it comes to the latter.

Betray Someone - What Happens?

Tue, 16 Oct 2018 14:53:41 -0500

To betray an ideal or a loved one can feel deeply disturbing. There are options in how we choose to respond when we are let down by others.

Nurture or Neglect?

Mon, 20 Aug 2018 08:39:37 -0500

'I have a lot of room for growth,' I said as a parting shot at church one day. And the mentor I had just conversed with quipped back, 'Yes, well, growth depends on the environment you're planted in, doesn't it?'

You Don't Need Anyone To Love You

Thu, 05 Jul 2018 07:08:55 -0500

It's not uncommon for someone to say that they want someone to love them, and this is what will motivate them to look for another person to be with. They might believe that everything will be fine after they have found someone like this.

Don't Put Women On A Pedestal

Thu, 05 Jul 2018 07:07:35 -0500

While I was out the other day I saw a woman who was wearing a fair amount of makeup, and seeing this woman had quite a big effect on me. But, even though part of me was responding to what I had seen, another part of me thought about how strange this all was.

Don't Crush What You Need to Blossom

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 10:31:52 -0500

This is another wise saying of my wife's. 'Don't crush the flower before it gets its chance to blossom.' Now, I am not really a gardener, but I have it on good authority that flowering plants need to be planted and tended well before they can mature. The same theory fits with human beings, whether it is in families, workplaces, churches, or marriages.

The Power in Naming the Game to Take Its Power Away

Sat, 21 Jul 2018 10:28:05 -0500

One of the healthiest devices known in the field of counselling is the concept of naming what is going on in the room. As I was reminded recently, one way of looking at this is to imagine each phenomenon as the game. There is incredible value in naming a game.

Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Associate Love With Drama?

Mon, 08 Oct 2018 14:50:30 -0500

In the same way that some car journeys can be peaceful and obstacle free and some can be noisy and full of obstacles, relationships can also fall into one of these two categories. What is clear is that it is going to be far healthier for someone to be in a relationship that falls into the fist category than one that falls into the second.

Are You Relying On Luck To Get What You Want?

Mon, 01 Oct 2018 12:14:04 -0500

When I used to go to different bars and clubs on a regular basis many, many years ago, there were often men who would talk about how they hoped to 'get lucky'. Sometimes I knew the people who would say this and, at other times, this was something that I would overhear.

Relationships: Can The Fear Of Being Seen Cause Someone To Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 11:04:56 -0500

There are a number of things that can stop one from being able to have a fulfilling relationship, and ending up with someone who is unavailable will be one of the things that will stop them from being able to fulfil this need. When this takes place, they can find it hard to understand how this has happened.

The Loneliness Epidemic

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 07:42:52 -0500

Are you lonely? Do you believe you just need to learn to live with this?

Prepare Messiah's Bride: Rocks and Relationships

Thu, 14 Jun 2018 11:34:41 -0500

Coming out of institutional churches has left many people in a quandary about how to find fellowship.Despite good intentions to follow the Word of the God of Israel--Messianic or Hebrew Roots groups--many such fellowships have succumbed to strife and division. This article identifies what the author believes to be a core issue and begins the process to address and restore individual and fellowship relationships between people, faith communities and the God of Israel.

Empowering and Enabling Functional Forgiveness

Mon, 04 Jun 2018 11:25:26 -0500

Imagine fellow human beings not being the real enemy, but the force of disconnection they avow; forgiveness is a power we employ when it functions for us to reconnect us to what is good. Unforgiveness is a force of disconnection.

Responsibility and Control in Relationship

Sat, 21 Jul 2018 10:28:43 -0500

There is one key determinant in gauging mental, emotional, and spiritual health. To what extent does a person have the capability to take their responsibility versus their propensity to control others.

The Return of the Prodigal Son

Fri, 29 Jun 2018 07:38:34 -0500

The parable of the prodigal Son, sometimes called the Lost Son is a story about how the father had two sons and the younger son demanded his share of the inheritance before it was due. After he received he inheritance the younger son set off for a faraway land where he squandered his inheritance.

When a Relationship Is Not What We Hope

Sat, 21 Jul 2018 10:27:48 -0500

There are times in all our lives when there is a relationship that doesn't quite meet our hopes. There is a particular kind of relationship that continues to elude us with a loved one or a friendship that has experienced fracture.

Relationships: Can Someone's Inner Critic Cause Them To Put Up With Abusive Behaviour?

Mon, 22 Oct 2018 08:48:47 -0500

If one is used to spending time around people who are abusive, they can come to the conclusion that they are a victim. It is then not that one is playing a part in what is taking place; it is that this is just how their life is.

Do You Tolerate Others' Uncaring and Disrespectful Behavior?

Mon, 18 Jun 2018 21:02:12 -0500

I grew up with two parents who constantly lacked caring for my feelings and frequently treated me with deep disrespect. Looking back, I know that neither of them had any idea of how to compassionately manage their own feelings, so they were completely incapable of being compassionate with mine. In fact, they seemed to lack the ability to feel and show compassion.

What Was Cute In Romance May Become Acute In Conflict

Thu, 13 Sep 2018 10:10:26 -0500

A number of years ago I read a few books by David Richo, and this is someone who really knows what he is talking about. Whether it is relationships or self-development in general, his books are packed full of insights.

The Prodigal Son and His Brother

Sat, 21 Jul 2018 10:32:42 -0500

The Prodigal Son is a parable told by Jesus about the younger son who demanded his inheritance from father and then once he got it went to a faraway land where he squandered his inheritance. This article about his older brother who continued to work for his father during the time his little brother was away.

How the Best Advice I Ever Got Hurt Before Its Truth Hit Home

Sat, 28 Jul 2018 18:44:42 -0500

It seemed so simple, but I was gobsmacked by the profoundness of what was said. There, as I lay there, my wife scooped in my arms, in bed to sleep, I was wide awake with awe, at the advice I had five minutes earlier heard my wife utter to me.

Are You In A Relationship With Someone Who Is More Like Your Son/Daughter?

Mon, 16 Jul 2018 07:28:48 -0500

The other day I was thinking about how there were times when I had come across couples who appeared to be out of balance. When this was the case, it was as though it was more like a parent-child relationship and not an adult to adult relationship.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Become Obsessed When They're In A Relationship?

Wed, 07 Nov 2018 09:57:49 -0600

When someone is in a relationship, they may find that their behaviour doesn't really change, and that this allows them to carry on as normal. Clearly, their life will be different as they will be with someone, but this won't have caused them to become someone else.

That Relationship You Need a Miracle for

Sun, 08 Jul 2018 08:54:32 -0500

We've all been in this place. And yet, another grief falls upon us. There is a relationship that shatters us in the process of its shattering. Whether the relationship is intact or not is immaterial. There is a grief in both aspects of relationship: in absence especially, but also in presence. Ask the spouse of the one with dementia. What was so precious is gone, forever. Sometimes presence resembles absence in the cruellest of ways.

You Have Daddy Issues

Sat, 07 Jul 2018 10:50:31 -0500

I was thinking the other day about how, over the years, I had heard a number of people say that certain women had "daddy issues". This was something that was said if a woman blamed all men for everything and hated men, or even if she had the tendency to go for older men.

Relational Silence That Sabotages or Restores

Mon, 20 Aug 2018 08:44:02 -0500

As a counsellor and a champion for peacemaking, I find there are two noteworthy kinds of silence that occur within conflict. One is very dynamic, but the other is very destructive.

Could Stress Be Distressing Your Relationships?

Sat, 28 Jul 2018 18:45:17 -0500

So many people I encounter are under the direct burden of stress. Levels of general anxiety in the population today are as high as at any other time in the history of the world. And yet, as you read this you might be like much of the world, living in comparative luxury compared to others who cannot read this, and there are those historically who have faced much harder realities than we do today, yet possibly experienced less general anxiety. These below are just four items on what would be a long list.

Here's a Person to Be Wary of

Wed, 05 Sep 2018 13:52:29 -0500

The world is full of lovely people, so don't get me wrong if this sounds a bit far-fetched or gets us talking about negative things too much. But the fact is there are people in our lives that gain far too much access to us.

Relationships: Can Someone Have Affairs When They Have A Fear Of Abandonment?

Tue, 18 Dec 2018 11:56:48 -0600

If someone is in a relationship that they no longer want to be in, it might not be long until it comes to an end. Perhaps they have been together for a number of months, or they may have been with each other for a number of years.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Lose Interest When Another Person Treats Them Well?

Sat, 09 Jun 2018 15:21:33 -0500

If someone had the desire to be in a relationship, they might think about what they can do to find the right person. This could then be a time when they will join at least one dating app and/or they might start going out a few times a week.

Feed Others, Eat Well Yourself

Thu, 07 Jun 2018 22:08:55 -0500

This article is based on our relationship with our family, friends and loved ones. It exposes the individual to the right approach to life on how to be helpful to the needy such that we in return will be get help when the need arises.we need each other to survive.

Relationships: Can Shame Stop Someone From Reaching Out To Others?

Mon, 03 Dec 2018 10:47:37 -0600

What can't be denied is that no one is their own island; human beings need each other. This is why it has been said that although some people say that they are independent, this is nothing more than an illusion.

Relationships: How Can Someone Know If They Are Ready For A Relationship?

Fri, 09 Nov 2018 13:04:41 -0600

In the same way that there are a number of reasons as to why someone would want to eat something, there are also a number of reasons as to why someone would want to have a relationship. If someone wants to eat something, it could simply show that they are hungry.

Making Sense of the Attitude of Forgiveness

Sun, 08 Jul 2018 08:53:49 -0500

If I'm a student of grief, I'm also a student of conflict, and whilst understanding of grief leads to acceptance, understanding of conflict leads to forgiveness. This is the premise: When you forgive you let go of what you cannot control.

How Much Control Do You Need?

Sun, 15 Jul 2018 17:49:06 -0500

The fact is we are in bondage to anything we have to control, whether it is people, the possessions we have, the circumstances of our lives, and especially how events we are involved in play out. Whatever we have to control controls us, and we're tempted to use what controls us, to control others.

The Prodigal Son and His Father

Mon, 19 Nov 2018 13:14:11 -0600

The father in this parable displayed all of his character when his younger son asked for his share of his inheritance before it is due. Reminds me of the scripture "Ask and you shall receive." He never tried to stop his son from taking off.

Abuse and the Eggshell Skull Rule

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 09:37:05 -0500

It suddenly occurred to me, having written "a difference between a victim and a survivor", that there is subjectivity out there regarding who can legitimately claim they have been abused. I don't think it's a coincidence that I have just learned about the eggshell skull rule. It's worth knowing about.

Three Ways to Ease the Prohibitive Conscience

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 09:36:43 -0500

If our key formative relationships featured manipulation, because it was an easy way to control us, we may have developed what can be termed a prohibitive conscience - a conscience based in fear, operating out of guilt. Likewise, if we have encountered people who are controlling, and we haven't been brought up in such a way, such manipulation can be jarring.

Can 'iron Sharpens Iron' Become an Excuse for Abuse?

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 10:33:28 -0500

Another goblet of gold from my wife, here. The conversation went this way: Me: you say that 'encouragement is sometimes about finding the right time for iron to sharpen iron.' Does that mean we just need to wait for the right time to give someone a truth they may not like to hear? Wife: I think it's more complicated than that. There's more to be considered. Iron sharpening iron, as a method of encouragement, must be a tremendously complex idea. There's a stand-alone article in that. Me: okay. That sounds exciting.

Do You End Up With People Who Are You Emotionally Unavailable?

Sat, 30 Jun 2018 19:16:48 -0500

I was thinking the other day about how common it is for people to end up in a relationship with someone who is not available. This is something that usually causes them to experience a lot of pain.

Are We Attracted To The People Who Will Allow Us To Replay Unresolved Childhood Trauma?

Wed, 24 Oct 2018 14:00:05 -0500

When it comes to what causes one person to be attracted to another, it is can be easy to believe that it is simply due to effect that the other persons personality and/or appearance has had on them. These two factors will then have had the biggest effect on why someone is sexually attracted to another person.

8 Tips to Help You Develop Positive Relationships

Tue, 12 Jun 2018 09:24:34 -0500

We all go through a lot of experiences during our lives. If you want to feel happier, healthier and more satisfied, you need to develop positive relationships with your loved ones. So, if you are struggling with this effort, we have given a few tips in this article that may help you achieve your goal.

A Front and Rear Guard for the Heart

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:31:51 -0500

I awoke as I normally do with the thought, what will I speak on today, and what will I write? Sometimes I already have the idea, but not this day. And then I read Acts chapter 14, and I see two words that summarise what Paul and the brothers were up against on that first missionary journey. First I see the opposition that they faced. The second thing I see is the flattery they encounter. Two completely opposite, and yet equally dangerous spirits, but both replete with opportunity.

What Makes You Feel Worthy and Loveable?

Tue, 05 Jun 2018 05:41:56 -0500

Take a moment to think about this: What do you believe makes you feel worthy and lovable? Do you believe you are worthy when you receive others' approval? Do you believe that you will feel worthy when you lose weight or look a certain way?

Delighting In Dealing With Difficult People

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 09:36:33 -0500

You sense it straight away, booking an appointment over the phone. The person on the other end is efficient if not a little curt. With every second it seems there is a heightening urgency in their voice. You feel as if you're being intentionally problematic for them, even though you're diligently polite.

Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone To Attract People Who Are Emotionally Dependent?

Mon, 10 Dec 2018 09:44:30 -0600

In order for two people to have a relationship together, they will both need to be able to behave like interdependent adults. The reason for this is that if only one of them acts like an interdependent adult, it will stop this from taking place.

Relationships: What Can Someone Do If They Keep Ending Up With The Wrong Person?

Tue, 18 Dec 2018 10:31:56 -0600

If someone had just bought a car, there is a strong chance that they would have taken it for a test drive first. This would have given them the opportunity to find out what it is like and to see if it would be a good match for them. Along with this, they would have most likely asked a number of questions about the car.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Have The Need To Be Needed'?

Sat, 28 Jul 2018 18:43:14 -0500

While there are people who are not interested in trying to rescue or save other people, there are others who are. As a result of this, some people will be repelled by these kinds of people and some will be drawn to them like bees to a honey pot.

Heeding the Walking-Away Moment

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 09:53:24 -0500

There are at least two opportunities to walk away with wisdom: To walk away from something permanently that has lasted for too long, and, to walk away from something temporarily where space is required. Knowing how and when to make these two decisions requires wisdom.

The Peace You Seek in a Warring World

Sat, 14 Jul 2018 10:19:10 -0500

Spend any time watching social media and you soon discover that the world seems to be going crazy. There are sides in everything. Politics has its left and right. Church has its fundamentals and liberals. There are feminists and misogynists. Pro-lifers and those for pro-choice. Those for and against same-sex marriage. People who believe in euthanasia and those who don't. This article is nothing about any of these issues.

Relationships: Are Some Men Too Emotionally Underdeveloped To Have A Relationship With A Woman?

Thu, 15 Nov 2018 16:34:11 -0600

It is not uncommon for a woman to complain about how she keeps ending up with men who are emotionally unavailable, and it would be easy to say that a woman like this is incredibly unlucky. Time after time, she ends up experiencing the same outcome - it can then seem as though men need to get it together.

What Did Your Parents Teach You About Men And Women?

Thu, 06 Sep 2018 09:29:20 -0500

I remember reading 'Family Secrets' by John Bradshaw and in this book he said, "it was and is your parents' actually lives that educated you: not what they said, but what they did". I took this to mean that what my parents did was far more important than what came out of their mouth.

Relationships: Why Do Some Women Always Attract Men Who Are Aloof?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:42:16 -0500

When a woman has the tendency to end up with men who are unavailable, it is naturally going to have a negative effect on her wellbeing. Her desire to be with a man who is available is not going to be met, so it is to be expected that this won't be something that she can simply overlook.

Meet the Malevolent Brothers, 'Abuse' and 'Manipulation'

Mon, 25 Jun 2018 11:52:05 -0500

Suddenly it dawned on me, there is a possible dynamic on the slippery slope, either side of making peace. The attack phase involves abuse. The escape phase involves manipulation.

Power, Privilege and Privation

Tue, 03 Jul 2018 11:06:40 -0500

We all have our childhood experiences, but for many forgotten ones, childhood trauma has left such an indelible mark on their psyches that they bear those marks of abuse everywhere they go, in everything they think, feeling through a heart that was damaged so long ago. The world is a place of power for the few, privilege for the many, and privation for those lost ones society seems to care so little about.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Take Other People's Pain Away?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 11:13:47 -0500

Pain is something that everyone on the planet experiences and, therefore, it is one of the things that connect human beings. However, although pain is something that can't be avoided, it doesn't mean that everyone is willing to accept this.

Relationships: Can Smartphones Destroy Relationships?

Thu, 19 Jul 2018 10:48:15 -0500

In the same way that it is easy for someone not embrace each day of the week due to being completely absorbed in what will happen at the weekend, it is also just as easy for them to ignore the people in their life due to being completely absorbed in their Smartphone. In each of these cases, the present moment won't be fully embraced.

My Irregular Relationship With Compassion Fatigue

Mon, 20 Aug 2018 08:43:49 -0500

I must say, that what still comes very much without warning, I still find hard to deal with, but I know in being honest I can trust my method. I have an irregular relationship with compassion fatigue, in that I feel I am sucked dry of empathy at times to the point where I have nothing left. Times like this I'm irrational in what I say, I complain, and I can't quite seem to find space and outlet for recovery. It is generally the night's sleep that brings me out of it.

Relationships: Why Are Some Men Only Interested In Women Who Need To Be Saved?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:41:38 -0500

When a man and a woman are together, and they are both in touch with their power, there will be no need for one of them to try to rescue the other. They will both have boundaries and they won't be carrying too much baggage.

Responsibility Makes and Breaks Relationships

Mon, 16 Jul 2018 07:27:42 -0500

The blessing we receive in taking responsibility is we take control of everything we can control, and we surrender control for everything that is beyond our control. And that is wisdom.

Emotional Support: Does Someone Want To Have Their Problems Solved If They Are Emotional?

Wed, 16 Jan 2019 14:24:14 -0600

If someone's emotions are not settled and they are all at sea, so to speak, there is the chance that they are going through a challenging time. Or, it could show that something in their life has had a big impact on them.

Relationships: Why Do Some Men Put Up With Bad Behaviour When They Are In A Relationship?

Mon, 12 Nov 2018 11:17:44 -0600

Although some men will have certain standards when they are in a relationship, there are going to be others who don't. As a result of this, not every man is going to have same experience when they are with a woman.

Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Feel Guilty When They Are In A Relationship?

Mon, 26 Nov 2018 10:14:16 -0600

If a man was to end up in an intimate relationship, he may find that he feels fairly comfortable. Perhaps he is with someone who he has a good connection with and is physically attracted to.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Feel Good About Themselves When They're In A Relationship?

Wed, 28 Nov 2018 14:10:11 -0600

What one may find is that they are able to feel good themselves, even if they are not in a relationship. It will then be clear that they are not going to be dependent on anyone else in order to experience positive feelings.

Why You and Me Doesn't Equal Three

Mon, 10 Sep 2018 12:36:46 -0500

Art therapy class taught me a lot. It consisted of a period of reflective expression in the form of a created piece of art, which was followed by a period of group therapy. It was amazing what took place through sharing what we had drawn, written, painted or sculpted.

Safe Versus Unsafe Emotions

Mon, 10 Sep 2018 12:36:21 -0500

Emotions belong in two worlds or in two domains. They are either healthy or unhealthy, productive or unproductive, primary or secondary, direct or indirect, safe or unsafe.

How Do I Know If I Should Help You or Not?

Mon, 10 Sep 2018 12:34:03 -0500

I have a real problem. If I listen to others, I really don't know whether I should help you or not. Actually, I do know, but it occasionally gets me into trouble, because at times I have offered to help those that some I know don't want me to help. For all manner of reason, good reasons and not-so-good reasons, helping sometimes creates problems in my relationships.

Relationships: Why Do Some People Lose Themselves When They Get Into A Relationship?

Mon, 10 Sep 2018 12:33:48 -0500

When two people get together and start a relationship, they can both have their own life. There is going to be how one person likes spend to their life and then there is going to be how the other person likes to spend their life.

When WE FEEL Taken For Granted

Thu, 29 Nov 2018 11:45:04 -0600

What happens when you have spent the whole day working hard, doing all the household chores and at the end of the day, you feel you deserve a rest. So you prop your feet up, pour yourself a glass of wine and plate yourself some fine cheese, and your spouse walks into the room and says, wow, you are truly enjoying the good life!

Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Settle Down If They Have Been With A Lot Of People?

Thu, 27 Sep 2018 16:12:51 -0500

In the past, it was the norm for people to wait until they were married before they had sex, and they would have most likely stayed with the same person until their time on this earth came to an end. Thanks, in part, due to the 'sexual liberation' of the 60s and 80s, this has all changed.

Relationships: Is There A Difference Between Helping Someone And Trying To Rescue Them?

Tue, 06 Nov 2018 14:11:22 -0600

If one was to find out that a friend or a family member is going through a tough time, there are a number of things that they could do. They could end up calling them up, or they could go and see them.

Relationships: Are Some People Addicted To Feeling Rejected?

Mon, 12 Nov 2018 11:08:59 -0600

It could be said that although rejection is part of life, there are some people who experience it more than others. Now, at times this will be due to how someone lives their life.

What You See Is Never The Whole Person

Wed, 27 Jun 2018 08:19:38 -0500

No human being can fully perceive another one because they didn't walk their exact path or shared the same experiences. Our perception of others is always distorted by our own knowledge and understanding of reality.

The Dynamics of Love and Control in Relationships

Sat, 28 Jul 2018 18:44:13 -0500

For some, in some situations, love is neither the desire nor do we have its agency. Love's not so easy. Situations like these we feel controlled or we act out of a need to have control. Relationship in this way is about taking and demanding and not giving or letting go. No matter what we try to do, the person we want to love will not receive that love. Whatever we give doesn't seem to be enough or even the right thing; it isn't perceived as loving.

Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Go Off Sex When They Are In A Relationship?

Mon, 26 Nov 2018 10:46:27 -0600

Before a man has even got to the point where he is in a relationship with a woman, there is a strong chance that they will already be having sex. If this is not the case, it could show that he is religious.

Relationships: How Can A Woman Tell If A Man Is Unavailable?

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 11:21:54 -0500

Although a woman may find that it is relatively easy for her to attract a man, what she may also find is that she is unable to find a man who actually wants a relationship. This may mean that she has been with a number of men who were emotionally unavailable.

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