Every guy wants one really great woman in his life. Sure, there are some of us who are greedy and would like more, but one is usually enough. With one great woman you will usually go much much farther in life. You simply wont have to waist time dating women who aren't good for you. What I'm going to give you here is a 5 step system to help you find that great girlfriend of your own.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship? Its hard to find the right relationship if you don't know what you want from a relationship. So you have to ask yourself some questions. "What is most important to me in a relationship?" "How will this relationship fit into my lifestyle?" If a woman can't meet your relationship needs then she isn't suitable to be your girlfriend. Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want? Some guys like short-term flings so that they don't have to worry about what to look for in a woman. But for a good relationship you do need to worry about what you want in a woman.

Figure out what sort of qualities you like and want from a woman. What sort of behavior are you willing to tolerate? How does she treat her family? How will she treat your family? Write down behavior that you like and behavior you don't like. If she has to many under things you don't like then let that woman go. Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her? Just about anywhere.

However, some places are better then others. If you hate party girls then don't bother going to bars. If you like dancing then taking dancing lessons will be great. If you like outdoorsy type women then get outside. If you prefer to meet women in the day then go to the mall.

Basically, you want to go to places that make it easy for you to meet women. You don't have to go to tall the normal places. Step 4: How Do I Approach Her? This is super easy if you do it right.

If you were taking dancing lesson would it be hard to approach a woman? No it wouldn't be. If you like to read and were at a bookstore would it be hard to approach a woman. No it wouldn't be.

The hard part of course would be overcoming your fears. All you have to do is to say something that is related to the topic. For example, at the bookstore you could ask her opinion on a good book to read. Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information? If you enjoy talking to her then you are going to want to see her again. I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile before you just try to get her number.

This allows you to make a greater connection with her and allow for more flirting. When you feel the time is right it would only be natural for you to ask for her contact information. It will feel right for you and it will feel right for her since you are enjoying each other so much.

Try something like this: "I want to see you again. Write your number down on this napkin." Where To Go From Here You really should date a number of women at the same time. By doing this you allow yourself the best chance to find the right one for a long-term relationship. This means you need to stay out there and meet more women. Yes it will get a little tiring, but it can also be allot of fun.

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